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MUST HAVES FOR WOMEN : A CHECKLIST FOR LIFE !! (2028 hits)

Lets list some of the things women MUST HAVE !
By doing so we help ourselves discover the necessary things that we need as women, to make life easier, become more independent, better equipted for life's challenges.
It's always better to have than to have not.
Creating a list of MUST HAVES, give goals toward accomplishments, direction, and a sence of being for self.
This list will indicate where you are and what you need.
Some of our Young Sisters need this insight, it a part of sharing.
A MUST HAVE LIST positions us in the quest of moving forward as women !

Please indicate next to each item the reason.

Posted By: Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 8:05AM
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O.K., I'll start !

Spirituality: A woman must believe and have a relationship with God.
Her own money: She has things to do and need to buy what she needs.
Passport : She needs to see the world, and be able to leave this country if necessary.
Quality Me-Time : So she can reflect on herself, and discover more.
Her own ride (car) : so she can move around independently.
Her own space : To do what she wants in it.
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 8:15AM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

Must have a 90 day wait and see period for the man in your life before giving all the benefits.
According to Steve Harvey !
( his new book, " Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man )
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 8:41AM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

Plan B-- Just in case plan A doesn't work out.
Flash light--- Just in case the power goes out, candles aren't safe if you have small children around the house.
Updated Resume'--- In the event you have to resign from your present job.

Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 10:08AM
Jen Fad

All true, thanks for sharing
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 10:17AM
Venus Mason Theus

Your list sums up my raison d'etre!
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 10:17AM
Marta Fernandez

Thanks Ladies/ Goddesses !
As we know, there's a lot of territory to cover in this area, we must have a lot of things !
Respect from men, is another we can include !
Lets keep adding on.
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 10:35AM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

You need to be quiet in the church !
You are unrealistic and out your rabbit a..mind !
Totally twisted and need to get a grip as to what life is about !
You do not want me to list what you all as men should or should not be expected to do, for it would be no comparison by far!
Now Rico, it is Rico, is it not?
There are a few things you need to assess !
1. This is not the 50's for one, with Donna Reed and definately not your "Mama's News".
You must realize that we no longer HAVE to do Or even think about doing any of the things you've listed. If we aren't into YOU !
A woman without a man is one thing, but a man without a woman is totally different ! ( not normal, lost in the sauce, "Gone with the Wind0 !
Somebody should have told you it's the woman that chooses the man ! A bontified player would even tell you that !
You my friend, have it twisted !
For REAL YOU DO !
Take a break and get back when you have more to offer that has validity !
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 5:08PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

This is why the man you referenced is living alone, and down- low is an all-time high !
This way of thinking !
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 5:20PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

By the way, your points of view are extremely limited !
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 5:27PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

Let me help you Rico. Your list should first be applied to yourself. I don't know where you have been, but the days of a couple being able to live on one income while the other takes care of the home have long disappeared and replaced with both needing to work AND take care of the home. We men must understand that this is a mutually beneficial partnership and we must be able to support our families beyond the financial and focus on the emotional support. By the way, I noticed that you said nothing regarding the cleanliness of the home. Don't forget that if you are afraid to sit down, there IS a problem. You have to realize that you can't get from someone more than what you are willing to give of yourself. You sound like you want a woman that will kiss the ground you walk on and bow to your deluded greatness. I guess you LIKE being by yourself. You need to get your house in order before you look for someone to share your life with. What you are describing is a servant, not a life partner.
Back to the subject. I believe that an educated woman brings more to the table because she is able to express herself on more subjects. I must add that being an educated person is not limited to the classroom alone.
A woman needs to be able to laugh at the world as well as herself. Being too serious can give you ulcers and premature wrinkles.
A woman should have realistic expectations in a relationship and clearly express those expectations to any prospective partner. He will either step up or step off.

Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 8:01PM
George Milliken

Well Rico we know where your brains are, and now that you've shown your true self you can now leave the forum. You are just left overs at this point. No Debt No weight, no conversation!
Wednesday, February 18th 2009 at 10:14PM
Janice Tuggle

Rico...well I think you've been roasted enough! Women must have at least in her lifetime a very elegant night of dining at a fine resturant. To dress up and be pampered in being totally adored! .....This a beautiful thought a lot us must have.
Friday, February 20th 2009 at 12:08PM
MIISRAEL Bride

One more word and I'm gonna cook his goose for him since a woman needs to be cooking somethng ! Lol !
Friday, February 20th 2009 at 6:27PM
Min.Dr.LaDonna Blaylock D.D.

A woman must respect her self enough to not give someone like the Rico's of the world a half second of her time of them trying to put her down just to build him self up.

Self respect will not even have you thinking that you are not being "lady like" by shuting, this form of insult/ abuse to your intellegance, totally out of your life before it gets a chance to start!!!!!(smile)

So sorry, but people like him threatens my Goddess Nature that makes me need to share the planet's air with them...TEMPERAMENT?????
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA

A woman needs to be here own best friend and treat herself as special once and a while. And, even better, treat herself like a GODDESS(smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA