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Peace To All,

I have been in a lot of dialogue with brothers on how powerful the woman is, how she is a god within herself. How she is equal to the man and she should never see herself as in a subservient position to man.

Well at the end of the dialogues I interject every time --- well if all you stated is true about the woman, then why is it expected for her to cook, wash dishes, clean the house, iron mans clothing, tend to the children, etc. etc. you all know what I'm saying... domesticate her.

It is pretty much all the same reply --- that is what women are suppose to do in being man's helpmate. I have even heard it shared with me and other women that blame Eve, for if Eve had not tempted Adam to eat the apple than she would not be in the domesticated situation.

I do not feed into that thinking at all --- however maybe I am taking it personal. Mind you I delight in being able to assist the Blackman in his development to god, however not if it is with a hint of or it is outright male chauvinism.

I welcome all feedback, thank you in advance.

BTW, I think if Adam was handling his business a snake or anything/body else would not have been able to tempt Eve and she went alone with it!!!!!!!!!!
Posted By: Siebra Muhammad
Friday, April 9th 2010 at 2:58PM
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No Clark I don't believe that the majority of black men are this way (LOL). Being a Black woman is a great and not so great position to be in, however I am very pleased to be able to assist in the development of the Black man in being himself, a mighty God. Because the more I assist, the more I am pleased by witnessing such power from himself, to rule and take control of any situation.

I notice the more I learn him the more I learn how to serve him to where he is happy and when he is happy, he automatically makes everything around him as well as with him happy. Submitting is very challenging (thought provoking that is) to me, because it is the thing that causes you to never be bored. To submit willingly to another in the way of serving is sheer power, coming from the one you are submitting to.

You see when a Black man inspires his woman to submit, WILLINGLY, he proves himself worthy for a woman to serve. The power is in the submission more so than in the serving, which is the joy. The more challenging it is, the more powerful he becomes. Meaning, equal the challenge, equal the greatness. When I keep this in mind it helps me to appreciate and respect my position of helpmate.

I'm gonna end this comment different than how I opened, being a Black woman is a great position to be in when I submit, therefore I see my husband being God and I am proud to be his helpmate --- being a female reflection of himself --- a Goddess!


Friday, April 9th 2010 at 5:10PM
Siebra Muhammad
I believe the proper word is helpMEET though. A mate is just a companion but a MEET is one who assist you in your life's work. Perhaps both words are appropriate in their respective contexts...
Friday, April 9th 2010 at 5:10PM
Siebra Muhammad
Siebra I believe if men truly love their wives, they will know she's more than a part of her duties of domestic chores...She should everything of love and values to him. True love for a wife makes her part of his own body where they are not two, but one. I think I've said that in the order of love for each other.
Sunday, April 11th 2010 at 9:25AM
MIISRAEL Bride
CORRECT!
Monday, April 12th 2010 at 2:15PM
Siebra Muhammad
I am a human being and anyone or use of any idea that "I" am a machine is on thAt person, not me...anyone who loves and respects themselves and demandS respect because this is their decision does not need to be a label to be the best person they can be...

I have said all of that to say this...I need no out side SOCIAL : permission/ label to be the best Irma "I" can be. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
mOZELL, REMEMBER YOUR BEAUTIFUL POEM...WITH OUT YOU THERE BE NO ME.lol...yo. LOV YA (smile)

Let us not allow all of the culture of our as related to the mother not the father being the care giver from the days of hunting gathering when the mother had food at all times from brest milk to roots and berrys, when the hunt provided only hunger ect
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
OR, BETTER YET BACK WHEN BOTH THE MALE AND THE FEMALE WERE BOTH IMPORTANT AND MAJOR FOR THE SURVIVAL OF THE HUMAN RACE. (smile)
Thursday, April 10th 2014 at 6:47PM
ROBINSON IRMA
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